Break ups

Why can't we just break up with someone? We can, we tell ourselves that we can't because we are afraid of what will happen to us and what the other person will do. We are are afraid that if this happens that nothing will ever make us happy again. But shouldn't we be happy that we did something we wanted? Well the answer is YES, duh, if we want to be happy we have to make ourselves happy and not worry about what others want. This is all YOU kid, you can do it!